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Q. My (now ex-)husband loved to fantasize about me
fu**ing other
men. At first I was repulsed, but he kept at it and eventually I
started indulging his fantasies by making up stories to tell him while
we were having sex. This soon led to him asking if we could have
threesomes with other people, so he could watch me getting fu**ed for
real. We did this a few times.
I ended up having a couple of affairs that I didn't
tell him
about. Of course he found out, and now he's divorcing me. I feel
terrible about what I did, but I can't help but wonder if his need to
see me with other men and my subsequent feelings of inadequacy (and my
need to be with a man who just wanted me) contributed to my affairs.
Now, I am terrified to get into another relationship. I don't want to
wind up with someone who has fantasies like this again. —All Scre*ed Up
About Sex
A. If the marriage of a cuckold fetishist and his
adulterous wife
can't survive a routine infidelity then, jeez, what hope is there for
the rest of us?
[Village
Voice]
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