|
 Dear Abby: My wife and I have been
married for 10 years, and it is a wonderful marriage.
Recently I found a “sex tape” online of my
wife with the guy she dated before me. This video was taken without her
knowledge and is from 13 years ago, Because of this, I am not upset
about it.
My question is, should I bring this to her
attention, and if so, how? I feel she needs to know it’s out there. I’m
reacting to this as a man would. I don’t know how a woman would react.
Please help.
It’s Private
Dear It’s Private: Although there are no
sex tapes of me floating around, I can tell you from a woman’s
perspective that if there was one (and the lighting was unflattering),
I’d be furious. Your wife has a right to know, so don’t keep her in the
dark.
P.S. How did
you come across that video? I’m sure she will be interested to know.
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